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THE SUBCONSCIOUSLY VINDICTIVE

Asanti Grisolmn and Abdullah Qureshi • October 23, 2023

THE SUBCONSCIOUSLY VINDICTIVE

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you couldn't help but feel a sense of vengeance welling up within you, even though you knew it wasn't the right way to respond? Welcome to the intriguing world of the "Subconsciously Vindictive." It's a term that may not be found in any psychology textbook, but it's a concept that resonates with many of us at a profoundly personal level.


The subconscious mind is a mysterious empire. It's the part of our consciousness that operates silently in the background, influencing our thoughts, emotions, and actions in ways we might not always be aware of. The subconscious mind is like an invisible puppeteer, pulling the strings of our behavior with an uncanny stealth. Now, let's explore the fascinating territory of the "Subconsciously Vindictive." This is a term we use to describe the hidden reservoir of resentment and retribution that bubbles beneath the surface when we feel wronged or slighted, yet we don't consciously acknowledge it. It's the part of us that secretly hopes for karma to kick in when someone has done us wrong.


We all know that revenge isn't a healthy or constructive response to any situation. But what happens when your subconscious mind takes matters into its own hands? The results can be quite self-damaging, to say the least.

When we've been hurt, that instinctual reactiveness within our subconscious invokes us to hurt others at the same magnitude that they've hurt us. 


But hurt people don't necessarily need to hurt people.  Hurt people can walk away from situations and people who have proven to be unappreciative of our love, those who are unappreciative of our efforts, and those who undervalue and deceive us. It says a lot more about our character when we refrain from reacting in the same ways as those who viciously attack us or mistreat us.  We don't have to be pawns of the enigmatic workings of our subconscious minds. Surely feelings of guilt will consume us and negative experiences will become the foundation upon which our entire existence will be built. 


The revolving door of conflict and emotional and mental self-deterioration continues to revolve until one day we get the courage to shut the revolving door. One day all you'll desire is peace and the thought of that same happiness that continues to elude you will become attainable through your intentional efforts to change. One day what will truly be remarkable will be the pivotal point of your devotion to growth, stability, and sanity that curates the phenomenal pathways of self-acceptance, self-actualization, and self-love. One day the world around you as you once knew it will be different because you'll no longer perceive it to be how it was and what once was you is no longer a part of this new version of yourself. 


Be dismissive but consciously aware of those inner machinations of evil as they aren't a natural part of our emotional processing but programming by ancestral default. The way to freedom lies beyond generational curses and systematic societal standards of living. Our subconscious vendettas arise when we perceive injustices, and they're often born out of the ego's desire for separation, not cosmic balance. Cosmic balance is advanced by way of love, forgiveness, sincerity, and compassion. There are ways to healthily cope with the frustrations and wrongs we encounter in our daily lives by mastering inner peace and an overindulgence in self-love. 


It's important to recognize its existence and learn how to channel these emotions in healthier ways. Instead of harboring secret vendettas, we can consciously address our feelings of resentment or hurt, either through open communication or by seeking personal growth and self-improvement. Overstanding the "subconsciously vindictive" nature of our minds can also help us empathize with others who may be unknowingly harboring similar emotions. It reminds us that we're all human and that we're all subject to the whims of our subconscious minds. May we navigate this complex terrain with curiosity, compassion, and a newfound awareness of our own "subconsciously vindictive" tendencies. It's not just about overstanding ourselves; it's about becoming the architects of our inner emotional worlds and the architects of our external destinies.


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