THE INTIMIDATED MAN

Since men are natural born providers and leaders of the household, when a man can't provide the way he would like to, it produces feelings of not being enough. It's not always simply that he isn't ready for commitment with you. He just doesn't think he can be the reliable provider you need; the type of provider he desires to be, for you 

This sensation of being easily intimidated can evolve to tremendous insecurity. An insecure individual believes deep down that he lacks the necessary capabilities. This mindset will, in many situations, have a negative impact on his relationship with his significant other, children, friends and family.

Here are 4 indicators that suggest a man may be feeling intimidated.

• He Can’t Sustain Relationships: When a man is intimidated, he may be so satisfied in a relationship but also scared that it won't survive much longer. He fears abandonment and instead of waiting for the inevitable, he unconsciously speeds up the process through a series of self sabotaging behavior that causes the relationship to collapse.
  
  
• He’s Always Nervous: He has a nervous body language among people who appear to be superior to him. As the old adage goes, actions speak louder than words, and this behavior influences the way others treat him, and further reinforces his belief about his self worth.
  
  
• He Doesn’t Open Up: When it comes to those who care about them (and whom they care about), they can seem as distant, cold, or emotionally disconnected. These feelings are frequently accompanied by the insecurity that comes with being intimidated. It’s pretty tough and uncomfortable for a person who is frightened or feels intimidated to express their sentiments to others.
  
  
• He Always Tries Too Hard. When a man is intimidated, he appears to be trying too hard all of the time. Everything he does will appear to be excessive or deficient in some way. He lives in a world where everything is on the edge and without any external factors, will either attempt to prove himself worthy or wallow in self-pity. Instead of being himself, he will devote a great deal of energy to protect the intimidated feelings he conceals and put on a facade to mask his true feelings and emotions.

It is important for men to know that they have not only qualities, skills and abilities at their disposal, but also the support of good friends, family and most importantly, the creator, to help them handle whatever life throws at them. Men who do not learn leadership qualities early enough from the male figures in their lives, or men who’ve had past experiences where they’ve been neglected emotionally and belittled and harshly criticized typically grow up to be intimidated men. So be emotionally supportive, be patient and be most importantly be kind.