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10 SIGNS HE’S AN EFFECTIVE LEADER FOR YOUR HOUSEHOLD

Asanti Grisolmn • May 16, 2022

A man with a strong sense of leadership is a rare find, especially in this age when most people are afraid to take on responsibility. When your sixth sense jumps in, prompting you to ask questions like "What are his motives?" "How do I know he's not like the others?" Let these signs guide you. 


  1. He Puts God First: In all aspects of his life, he enjoys communion with God, and he is at ease with the understanding of a larger power from which he can draw strength.

  2. He is Independent But Knows How To Exercise Inter-dependency: He acknowledges the emotional tie that is present while keeping a strong sense of self within the partnership. He has mastered correct self-evaluation and self-validation and is no longer reliant on external praise or traumatized by past disappointments.
     
  3. He Possesses Excellent Communication Skills: It is a very lovely thing when a man can communicate with you beyond words, listen to you carefully, and make you feel comfortable telling him anything.
     
  4. He Is Emotionally Mature: An emotionally mature man will maintain his composure and admit when he is mistaken. He never yells at you or calls you names because he always respects you, no matter how angry he is.
     
  5. He Is Financially Stable: He can sustain himself and keep a steady job or run a successful and sustainable business without sacrificing his work ethic. He has a clear idea of his career or entrepreneurial pursuit.
     
  6. He Is Mentally Stable: A mentally stable man is neither arrogant nor fearful. His talents and weaknesses are well-known to him, and he embraces them. He doesn’t allow himself to be bogged down with feelings of anxiety or depression, nor is he fearful of rejection. You can say he’s mastered the art of living in the present moment and understands the concept of the power of now.
     
  7. He Is Honest: An honest man is a trustworthy man. He practices transparency by prioritizing being open with his partner without concealing details of his life or acting as if he is someone else outside of the relationship. 

  8. He Is Not Afraid To Be Vulnerable: He understands that accepting and welcoming his sentiments, rather than acting harsh and tough, always are the true indicators of maturity.

  9. He Is A Seeker Of Knowledge: He is eager to learn new things and improve as a person. On instances when he is unsure of the answers, he will ask questions and seek guidance from those who are more knowledgeable in that aspect, demonstrating his superior problem-solving abilities.

  10. He Trusts Himself: A man who places trust within himself and his ability to make effective decisions is a man who isn’t easily influenced by the opinions of others. This is an intuitive man who trusts in his inner guidance rather than outside noise. He doesn't think it's necessary to question your actions because he feels secure in his trust in you. He is honest in his dealings and expects you to be honest as well.

While these signs show how effective a man is, finding all of these traits in one man may be tough. If your partner possesses a significant number of the attributes discussed above, you're well on your way to enjoying the best of a romantic partnership. 


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